We all live in relationships: as parents or children, as friends, partners, lovers. We are taught how to do this — how to live a relationship — from the very beginning, but it is rarely explained. Sometimes we have to teach ourselves how to communicate sensitively and effectively with ourselves and with one another, how to recognize and articulate our feelings, needs and boundaries, and how to build trust.

"Romantic" relationships in particular, whatever form they take, are subject to immense expectations and social expectations (as the name itself makes clear). This brings together people who have often had very different experiences in their upbringing, who have been socialized differently and behave and feel differently in the world. It is therefore not surprising that relationships are almost never a sure-fire success, but require skill and perseverance — this usually becomes clear at the latest when the magic of the initial infatuation wears off.

Supportive couples counseling can fill in the gaps, the blank pages where we feel a lot and are reactive with each other and don't manage to classify or express it. Just a few sessions can clarify where the real issue resides.

People and relationships need security in order to blossom and grow. One main focus of the sessions will be to create or rebuild this very security — the breeding ground — in order to address the issues of the relationship and everyday life.

Topics We Can Address in Couples Counseling:

• New Relationships: "We just got together and want to do things differently this time."

• Communication Issues: "We have nothing more to say to each other." / "We always talk past each other."

• Trust Issues: "There was/is an affair that leads to a loss of trust."

• Sexual Problems: "Our sexual tempos no longer match." / "I have a fetish I can't explain to my partner."

• Conflicts: "We argue too much." / "Everyday life brings so many challenges for us."

• Future Planning: "We have different views on the future (children, place to live, career)."

• Separation Questions: "Do we need to separate?"

• Control and Perception Issues: "One person feels controlled or not acknowledged in the relationship."

• Relationship Models: "We don't know which relationship model is right for us: consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, swinging, etc."

• Loss of Infatuation: "The infatuation is gone... Now what?"

Couple Session:

•  Couple Session:

  • Introductory call to get to know each other – 60 minutes for 60 €

  • follow-up Session, 90 minutes: 110 € - 150 € per session (Solidarity price, depending on financial capability)

  Packages:

  • 5-Session Couple Package:

    • 5 sessions of 90 minutes – 550 € 

  • 10-Session Couple Package:

    • 10 sessions of 90 minutes – 1050 € 

Session Process:

• Initial Consultation:

  • Clarification of the starting situation and goals - 60 minutes, 60 €

• Regular Sessions:

  • Addressing individual and partnership issues

• Follow-up and Evaluation:

  • Reviewing progress and adjusting the approach if needed

Package: Intimacy Evolution: Rediscover Connection & Passion Together

Discover a unique combination of couples coaching, systemic sex therapy, and tantric bodywork to transform your relationship. Move from insecurity and taboos to connected sensuality, joy, and clear conflict resolutions..

This package provides couples with the opportunity to grow together, both in verbal conflict resolution in everyday life and in physical and sexual areas. It integrates tantric bodywork and conversational coaching to offer a holistic relationship experience.

Duration: We will progress at your pace.

Recommended: 5 weeks of collaboration and a check-up call after one month.

What to Expect:

• Introduction and Goal Setting:

  • 2 x Couple Sessions (Initial assessment, goals and wishes, sexual profile) – 75 minutes each

• Individual Coaching:

  • 2 x Individual Coaching Sessions focusing on sexuality – 60 minutes each

  • Or 1 x Extended Couple Session – 120 minutes

• Bodywork and Meditation:

  • 2 x Individual Tantric Massages with Pelvic Space Meditation – 3 hours each

• Practical Application:

  • 1 x Tantric Couple Session: Coaching of Touch – 4 hours. We meet as a trio and you will learn tantric touch on each other.

• Conclusion and Integration:

  • 1 x Follow-up and Integration Session: After at least one month, we will meet again to reflect on your progress and achievements.

• Additional Support:

  • Homework and ongoing support in between sessions

  
  

  Price: €1,950 per couple (installment payment possible)

Why do couples begin coaching with me?