World as Lover

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"I am Sonja. Welcome to World as Lover, the integrated approach to couples coaching, systemic sexual counseling and tantric body work."

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What is World as Lover all about?

World as lover

In connection with the world, with oneself, with everything that happens…

Every day, we give and receive and live in a complex network. The awareness of this, the recognition for small gestures, for peaceful coexistence can nurture our gratitude for existence.

Honest Relationships

In relationships, old and young parts of ourselves are activated, and social norms determine everyday relationships and sexuality. We will take a holistic approach to addressing your challenges.

How often we think in the beginning of a new love relationship that we really know each other and after some time we sometimes don't even recognize the other or their behavior anymore which creates suffering.

To heal relationships and unhealthy patterns is a step towards a much happier life.

Searching for answers..

With relationships, challenges arise that sometimes seem almost impossible to overcome:

for example, when you keep getting stuck on the same issues and even though you are together and want to change, you don't know what to do; when you can't cope with a betrayal or the relationship concept is creaking, but new paths don't really sound attractive either; when you get to know each other and want to try everything differently this time but just don't want to succeed.

Such challenges often require professional help.

To look into communication dynamics or to approach sexuality more consciously can embark new horizons.

Approach, visions and who I am

I am firmly convinced that if we manage to find peace in our intimate relationships, we can contribute to a more peaceful world.

Hi, I'm Sonja

I am a certified in systemic sex therapy and am a couples coach using the Couple Care Method. Four years ago, I completed my Tantra Teacher Training, and since then I have been accompanying people who have sexual issues, with bodywork, and as a coach for tantric touch. My studies in sociology and health science, my voluntary work, activism, my part-time jobs — I have always focused on the topics of sexuality and relationships. I approach them with theoretical and practical expertise and holistic awareness.

Through my further training and work experience, I specialize in dealing with non-consensual external relationships, relationship anxiety, dysfunction and pain during sex, pregnancy conflicts, and sexualized violence, especially in schools, sexual education, STIs and working to raise awareness of stigma, BDSM, fetishes and much more.

Relationships and sexuality — they are in a constant state of flux. They resonate with the processes of aging, unique phases of life, new encounters and social changes. They are permeated by needs, norms and projections. And they always bring together very different worlds of different people who want to create something together.

Approach: World as Lover - love to yourself, love for the world and all sentient beings

In connection with the world, with myself, with everything that happens. We are constantly in a relationship with everything that happens around us. We give and receive daily and live in a complex network. The awareness of this - to acknowledge small friendly gestures - a try for peaceful coexistence can make us have a more happy life.

“I am firmly convinced that we can contribute to a more peaceful world if we manage to find peace in our intimate relationships and communicate with each other in a mindful way.”

Relationships bring with them challenges that sometimes seem almost impossible to overcome: for example, when you keep getting stuck on the same issues and together you don't know what to do. When you can't cope with a betrayal or the relationship concept is creaking, but new paths don't really sound attractive either. When you get to know each other and want to do everything differently this time but just don't want to succeed. Professional help is often needed for such challenges.

Using the latest findings from couples and sexuality research, I help people understand their relationship patterns and why they keep struggling with the same issues. I create safety and encourage sharing anything suppressed by shame and fear to enable healing together. Once we have come into connection with our needs, our relationships can begin to transform.

In relationships, old or young parts of ourselves are activated and social norms determine everyday relationships and sexuality. We will take a holistic approach to your challenges.

Certifications

Master of Arts: Prevention and Health Promotion (Europa Universität Flensburg)

Bachelor of Arts Sociology (University of Bremen)

Systemic Sexual Therapy - IGST Heidelberg (Lecturer Dr. dipl. Psych Nele Sehrt) - 1 year

Systemic Trauma Therapy - IST Berlin (ongoing till 2025) - 1,5 years

Couple Coach - Couple Care Berlin (Lecturer Aino Simon) - 1,5 years

Certified Coach - bta academy - Berlin.

Stress Management Coach - GKM Institute

Tantra Teacher 200h Aum Tantra Yoga, Kundalini Tantra Academy, Mexico.

Hatha and Ashtanga Yoga Teacher. 200h Rishikul Yogshala, Kerala, India.

Shiatsu practitioner - Level 1 SHIATSU-ZENTRUM, Edith Storch. Berlin.

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